作者：萨提亚(Virginia Satir)
 
 

        我想爱你而不用抓住你
        I want to love you without clutching

        欣赏你而不须批判你
        appreciate you without judging

        和你齐参与而不会伤害你
        join you without invading

        邀请你而不必强求你
        invite you without demanding

        离开你亦无须言歉疚
        leave you without guilt

        批评你但并非责备你
        criticize you without blaming

        并且
        and

        帮助你而没有半点看低你
        help you without insulting

        那么
        if

        我俩的相会就是真诚的
        I can have the same from you

        而且能彼此润泽
        Then we can truly met and enrich each other